Ignoring the power of not...quite...saying everything

Mistake #6 : Ignoring the power of not...quite...saying everything

Okay, this one is a touch more tricky. Sometimes it looks like simply not saying
everything you know. But there's also a more subtle tool here, and you are going to love
using it.
I sometimes call this the art of the unfinished sentence. The purpose of an unfinished
sentence is to let him know he's made you speechless (in a good way), or to allow and
encourage him to fill in the blanks with his own version.

It looks like this:

• He comes to pick you up, and it's clear he put a lot of effort into dressing to the nines.
• You say: Wow. You look.... (take a deep breath, and bite your lip)
• Last night he was incredible, amazing, unstoppable.
• Today you text him and say: I can't stop thinking about last night when you...
• Today he's working on some bizarre project in the garage. You have no idea what it is.
• You say: Verrrry interesting, all this. So tell me... 
• Just now he did something very gallant, sexy, or otherwise praiseworthy.
• You purr: YOU are SO... (flash your million dollar smile)

We ladies are usually VERY quick with words, and we usually have a waterfall of them
constantly running. It can be overwhelming to a guy, which makes your judicious use of
silence particularly powerful.

Mistake #1 : Sacrificing or negating who you are

Mistake #2 : Being a man’s mama

Mistake #3 : When you're not in it to win it

Mistake #4 : When you kill his thrill of the chase

Mistake #5 : Insincere or unspecific praise

Mistake #7 : Premature enunciation