When you kill his thrill of the chase

Mistake #4: When you kill his thrill of the chase

Remember, guys are looking for an adventure. They love a task, a job, a hero's quest. So
make sure you're not the low-hanging fruit that any scrub could just reach out and pluck.

Yuck, I grossed myself out just writing that.

This isn't about pretending you don't want a man in your life, it's about knowing that
you're going after what you want in every aspect of your life, and if he intends to catch
you, he better keep up!

• Don't call him more than he calls you.
• Don't drop everything to return every single text or call immediately.
• Keep dating other guys until and unless you've both agreed to be exclusive.
• Encourage him to have “guy time” – because you're going to keep having
  “girl time.”
• Don't sleep with him too soon, and never become a “bootie call” with any
  man you're serious about.

If he doesn't have to chase, work and even fight to win you...he probably won't want you.

LET HIM WORK TO WIN YOU!

Really.
There are actually two reasons for this, and only one of them has to do with how fiercely
competitive and task-oriented guys are.
The second one is this...

YOU ARE WORTH IT.

You are gorgeous, confident, whip-smart, and getting sexier every day. That's premium
goods, beautiful, and you can't just be giving your attention away for nothing.

Mistake #1 : Sacrificing or negating who you are

Mistake #2 : Being a man’s mama

Mistake #3 : When you're not in it to win it

Mistake #5 : Insincere or unspecific praise

Mistake #6 : Ignoring the power of not...quite...saying everything

Mistake #7 : Premature enunciation