When you're not in it to win it

Mistake #3 : When you're not in it to win it

GO AFTER THIS, girlfriend. Don't sit around and WAIT for your prince to show up, because who has time for that crap?

Take the initiative, engage with the world, and lead with a smile...

It's perfectly understandable if your nervous, scared, or uncertain. But don't broadcast that to the world, and don't let your doubt be what drives you.

There's something wonderful out there for you – go get it (or someone else will).

Life is waiting to be lived, so go out and live it so hard and so well that the air around you throws off sparks and you leave a bunch of slightly exhausted, happy people in your wake.

Mistake #1 : Sacrificing or negating who you are

Mistake #2 : Being a man’s mama

Mistake #4 : When you kill his thrill of the chase

Mistake #5 : Insincere or unspecific praise

Mistake #6 : Ignoring the power of not...quite...saying everything

Mistake #7 : Premature enunciation